Me and my boyfriend are having sex problems?
michimama asked:
My boyfriend is 25 & I’m 23. We’ve been dating for 3 years & we were both our first sex partners. I’ve always been highly sexual and he’s isn’t so much. Since I went on birth control, I have lost some sex drive, but still am more horny that he is in general. About 8 months ago he had a swollen prostate & was diagnosed with a prostate infection. We barely had sex during that time. Since then his prostate stopped giving him problems. I am, however, still unsatisfied with our sex life. He can’t have sex more than once a day, he can never ever have sex in the morning(when I’m the most horny), he only ever wants to have sex late at night(at 4am), if work bothers him he can’t get it up that day, & I’m usually the one who initiates sex. Every time I try to talk to him about it he gets angry & acts like I am demanding. All I ask for is sex in the morning once a week or maybe one day a week where we do it twice in 24 hrs. We usually have sex 4 times a week. Is this normal? Or am I demanding?
P.S. Most normal people have sex before marriage. I have a right to be religionless.
prostate problems
My boyfriend is 25 & I’m 23. We’ve been dating for 3 years & we were both our first sex partners. I’ve always been highly sexual and he’s isn’t so much. Since I went on birth control, I have lost some sex drive, but still am more horny that he is in general. About 8 months ago he had a swollen prostate & was diagnosed with a prostate infection. We barely had sex during that time. Since then his prostate stopped giving him problems. I am, however, still unsatisfied with our sex life. He can’t have sex more than once a day, he can never ever have sex in the morning(when I’m the most horny), he only ever wants to have sex late at night(at 4am), if work bothers him he can’t get it up that day, & I’m usually the one who initiates sex. Every time I try to talk to him about it he gets angry & acts like I am demanding. All I ask for is sex in the morning once a week or maybe one day a week where we do it twice in 24 hrs. We usually have sex 4 times a week. Is this normal? Or am I demanding?
P.S. Most normal people have sex before marriage. I have a right to be religionless.
prostate problems
May 29th, 2009 at 11:40 pm
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everyone’s sexual drives are different, and men with prostate problems do have difficulty in maintaining sex drive, much less erections. medications may assist him, but his views on sex, and his sex drive, are things only he can control, or change. men unfortunately don’t talk about sex well, we just do it and hope for the best. in your case, you may not be as compatible as you thought. joint counseling may resolve your sexual frustrations.
June 2nd, 2009 at 2:03 am
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you are too demanding..or he is gay
June 3rd, 2009 at 8:53 am
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Thats normal! He has to understand that you just have a higher sex drive! Maybe he should look into pleasing you others ways(oral, etc) so that you are happy and that he doesnt have to have intercourse. Talk to him about it, maybe its a bigger problem than what you think and he isnt letting you know.
June 3rd, 2009 at 10:53 pm
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“Is this normal? Or am I demanding?”
No, it’s not normal. He should be hornier, I guess.
It’s strange that he has a weak sex drive. Especially since he’s new to sex. It’s not like he’s been around so much that it’s gotten boring, ya know? Have a good, serious talk with him about it.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:01 am
prostate problems
You are normal but I don’t know about him, maybe you should push the Viagra thing to him, jk, but i say if he’s not willing to fulfill our needs somebody else will, so please talk to him before someone meets your need.
June 5th, 2009 at 8:11 am
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once a day is over adverage but your a horny girl and your boyfriend should be there to satisfy you. Sit him down and have a serious talk. Tell him you will leave him if he gets angery. Just so he knows your serious. If he is still stubborn then I thinkgoing yuor seperate ways might be for the best. You need someone who is as horny as you
June 8th, 2009 at 8:56 am
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…you’re high level drama darling…and your present guy hun?…he’s not alternatively.
Strike up an agreement of some kind with him sister…otherwise I’d say you two absolutely need to run in different circles hun!
You’re hot…he’s cold…and he can’t help the way he is?….and neither can you darlin.
No excuses hun…..find a new guy that runs at the same pace or faster then you do sweetie….agreed?
good luck sister!!!
June 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
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Sex 4 times a week for a couple that has been together for 3 years is pretty good. I have a very high sex drive as well, but you have to look at it from his point of view. He is probably feeling like your sex machine. If you quit demanding it you may actually get it more often and he won’t have to stress about it. He may be feeling inadequate because you are always wanting it, which in turn can bring his sex drive down. Try cuddling and snuggling with him without expecting sex to go along with it. Try being satisfied with some flirting and smooching. Give him a break from the demands and expectations. If sex continues to be a problem, you may want to seek help of a counselor or therapist.
June 10th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
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This sounds like an episode I saw on sex in the city, only she wanted it at night and he wanted it in the morning… well this is what happens when sex is the ruler of your relationship… If you really love him then you’ll know what to do…
June 11th, 2009 at 4:56 am
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No—you don’t have any problems—he’s just being a bitch. Tell him that you have needs… If he gives a shit—he will work to make a change—otherwise, don’t even let him indulge in your freaky-ness…
June 14th, 2009 at 10:22 am
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the site review site for cumfiesta.com can help. what i do with my partners is watch the movies will doing the act at the same time. hope this helps.
June 17th, 2009 at 2:20 am
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OK STOP…you are like so so so stupid you are not married what the heck is wrong with you go read your bible.