What should I do about my husbands impotence?
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My husband and I have been together 3 1/2 years, and married 3 months.. within the last 6 months we haven’t been having sex nearly as much as we used to. I know this is normal for most relationships, but I am 24 with a very high sex drive and he is 30. He says he always feels tired, yet goes to the gym everyday..and when we do have sex most of the time he has trouble keeping it hard. I have suggested him to see a doctor but he refuses because he says it’s embarrassing, which I can understand but I think something needs to be done. Can anyone suggest what we do? Is couples counseling an option? And if so how can I find one that is right for the situation? And how can I get him to see a doctor??
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My husband and I have been together 3 1/2 years, and married 3 months.. within the last 6 months we haven’t been having sex nearly as much as we used to. I know this is normal for most relationships, but I am 24 with a very high sex drive and he is 30. He says he always feels tired, yet goes to the gym everyday..and when we do have sex most of the time he has trouble keeping it hard. I have suggested him to see a doctor but he refuses because he says it’s embarrassing, which I can understand but I think something needs to be done. Can anyone suggest what we do? Is couples counseling an option? And if so how can I find one that is right for the situation? And how can I get him to see a doctor??
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April 24th, 2009 at 10:01 am
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Common problem. There are foods which can help such as those high in citruline (watermelon) and zinc. There are also exercises such as yoga that help.
April 25th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
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yep and still go to the doctor to find any psychological reasons.
April 28th, 2009 at 7:25 am
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I think it is helpful in a marriage to have the same doctor. Choose a family practice person (a male doc) for your husbands comfort. You can talk with the doctor about all of this when you have your appointment. The doc will give you good advice and probably a phone number for a marriage counselor. Then the doctor can talk to your husband at your husbands next visit. If the doc presents the issue, your husband will cooperate. Why don’t you suggest to your husband that he just get a routine physical.
Some of the things I would be thinking about are: does he take supplements that are affecting him, medications, spending too much time on computer (you know), low testosterone level, worries about finances?/job?, depression, perhaps he is exhausted and you need to expect less frequency and change the time of day to something better for him.
good luck with your marriage.
April 28th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
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Ask him if he gets hard when he looks at porn. If he does then…
April 30th, 2009 at 12:42 am
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how is your sex life? if your doin the same old stuff you might spice it up a little. you might try more of the foreplay kinda stuff just to increase the anticipation of sex. also men in the middle east use natural sources to help with their impotence by eating fresh dates. also you might try strawberries or oyster shots if you would be into that sort of thing. you just gotta think outside the box a little. please understand, this coming from a guy, going to the doctor to solve a problem like this, that you feel you shouldnt have in the first place, is not an easy idea to swollow. however if this is what has to happen please keep telling you husband that it is something for the both of you and that you dont think any less of him as a man cause a problem like this is not any easy one to talk to others about.
May 1st, 2009 at 6:23 pm
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Ill suggest two things.
1. Hes going to the gym a lot and is impotent. Is he using steroids?
2. If not no.1, then he has Erectile Disfunction. In that case you have to talk with your husband and make him understand how important it is to have a sex life. Because right now it sounds like “im tired” is actually “I’d rather go to the gym than go home and face the embarassing truth that I cant get it up”.
If he wont go to the doctor, than buy a viagra pill, make him take it. He’ll get hard, you can rattle his bones and make him remember how good it feels and then maybe he will change his mind.
May 3rd, 2009 at 4:18 am
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def levitra/viagra will do the trick. iif he’s too tired you can still get on top, and after a while w/o sex he may just throw you down and remember what he’s been missing
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:50 pm
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yeah, he needs to see the doc and get some ED meds. and to find out if there are any other underlying causes (high blood pressure, diabetes, etc) going on.
May 4th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
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well let me play devils advocate and ask are you sure its not you? could it be this guy is bored out of his skull? do you really think its a medical problem? or could it be your not working it the way he needs it. just asking not saying anything bad about you.
May 4th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
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He could try viagra but I will tell ya what, that stuff sucks. The side effects are terrible. Has he ever tried a sexual enhancer? I was in his situation, like I said, viagra was tried but it wasn’t for me considering the side effects overwhelm the pleasures of it. I found this natural herbal enhancer and figured what the heck, if it’s natural it must be great and plus it said no side effects. I tried it and after about two days of taking it I was just horny like a mad man. All the time, I have erections that want to stand straight up and the orgasms are to die for. The stuff was called vigrx plus and I saved on it at the time at .com You should tell him to check it out. I love the fact it’s made from a researched blend of herbs that seem to do the trick for me atleast.
Good luck and I hope this helps.