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im gonna starve myself once a year for until im 25….im 14 now….like i don’t know how to explain it..every year…ill starve myself for 2-3 months until im at my goal weight….and on that day…im gonna love myself and have as much fun as possible. then im gonna start eating regularly for a little while…until the same time the next year. and so on. i feel so old. like i should be skinny now because these are supposed to be “the best years of my life” i feel so ugly fat and just plain old. like idk. can someone help me. i hate myself so much. i see a therapist and its not doing anything. i don’t even make sense anymore. what is wrong with me? and i don’t have any friends because im so fat and ugly. i wanna look like those “scene girls”. they make me feel ugly.
my family hates me. idk guys…
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im gonna starve myself once a year for until im 25….im 14 now….like i don’t know how to explain it..every year…ill starve myself for 2-3 months until im at my goal weight….and on that day…im gonna love myself and have as much fun as possible. then im gonna start eating regularly for a little while…until the same time the next year. and so on. i feel so old. like i should be skinny now because these are supposed to be “the best years of my life” i feel so ugly fat and just plain old. like idk. can someone help me. i hate myself so much. i see a therapist and its not doing anything. i don’t even make sense anymore. what is wrong with me? and i don’t have any friends because im so fat and ugly. i wanna look like those “scene girls”. they make me feel ugly.
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May 28th, 2010 at 1:00 am
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ok first of all, DONT! scene girls aren’t the only attractive people in the world. look around you. see how many happy, healthy, married people there are who arent and were never scene. ok? starving isn’t good. lose weight the healthy way. and i personally dont like the “scene” look. most of them are annoying.
edit: i dont think it was funny at all. be yourself. you got one life. one chance. live it. dont waste it trying to fit in =)
May 29th, 2010 at 7:49 am
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ahahahahahaha
May 31st, 2010 at 12:17 am
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First of all, it’s normal to think that you do not look as pretty as those other girls. Everyone is self conscious about how they look, it’s human nature. But different people handle those feelings in different ways, some more serious than others.
The situation you are explaining is a very unhealthy way to try and stay thin. If you want to lose weight, do it by eating healthier and regular exercise. When you are physically fit, you’ll naturally feel better anyways.
The “ideal body image” put out by the media is a gross and damaging lie. You want to see Photoshop manipulation? Look at the cover of any fashion magazine. Look up “Evolution of Beauty” on YouTube. Right from little kids we are bombarded with this ridiculous idea of what is beautiful. It is there in toys, music, television, fashion, dancing…everywhere…this disgusting lie that we need to look like them to be worth something. No wonder millions of people have developed anorexia and other eating disorders.
To anyone struggling with an eating disorder, I truly hope you find help and take control of your life. Think back to how it all started. When did you first start to think that any body fat was ugly? The more you think about it, the more i hope you begin to see that you’ve been lied to. You already are beautiful. You do not have to make yourself look like THEM to be special. All the strength and beauty you will ever need are already inside you.
May 31st, 2010 at 1:29 am
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June 2nd, 2010 at 12:47 pm
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Haha, scene girls:]
Best stereotype ever.
The way I see it, it is pointless trying to look good to be up to other people’s standards.
If you are skinny, your boobs will be too small.
If you have a nice rack, Your butt will be too small.
If you have a huge ass, some guy that likes girls with flat asses is going to come along and kill your self esteem.
Learn to love yourself the way you are. I know it sounds like what everyone is telling you, but really, it’s the best thing to do.
Some guys like bigger girls.
You have curves, be proud of them!
If you want to lost weight, you shouldn’t do it by not eating. In fact, don’t change your eating habits at all. Just exercise. But get into it gradually so as not to shock your body.
Good luck!
June 5th, 2010 at 11:10 pm
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you sound exactly like every other 14 year old girl. they all feel this way, even if they don’t seem self-conscious. you’ll get over it. don’t starve yourself.